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How to be more approachable

I have met a lot of women who say despite their best efforts to be nice, guys still do not approach them. This might be you. It’s been a while since you gave out a number. The years seem to be flying past, and it gets particularly worrisome if everyone around you seems to be falling in love and getting married. You want to meet a great guy and fall in love, but then no one seems to be approaching you. You’re not getting any younger... but don’t despair. In this article we'll cover 9 tips on how to be more approachable. I believe, if you want to find yourself in a meaningful relationship, the starting point should be  yourself. Most guys have a problem approaching women that they really like. This is mainly out of the fear of getting rejected. So as a result, all they do is watch you look beautiful from afar. Helplessly hoping for a miracle to bring you their way.... and a really really strong wind to blow you into their arms. See, most men have been in situations where they were ge

My dating advice for big women

In my efforts to assist women I have met a number of women who generally describe themselves as full figured, big boned or 'fat'. Through my interaction with them and based on a friend's request, I feel there is a need to address them specifically. So this article will basically be my dating advice for big women, given from a male perspective. It is the same advice I would give my own sister or nieces and thus I hope you will find it extremely helpful. As with everything, there are exceptions, so rather focus on what applies to you and use the rest to understand the male logic. Firstly, there are a number of things that you should understand about how we view women as men and below is a list of a few truths: 1.      Before anyone can love you the first person to love yourself should be you 2.      The odds are against you.... because of 'media stereotypes', you are up against many much smaller well built women (but do not despair I’m writing this to put you on a lev

How to get his attention (even if you don't have the looks)

HOW TO GET HIS ATTENTION (EVEN IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE LOOKS) Attraction is quite a complex subject. Oftentimes the ones we love don't notice us at all. It might seem like there's no hope, but in this article, I'll show you how to get his attention even if you don't have the looks of a supermodel. At some point you might have been tempted to look down upon yourself because of a 'perceived' flaw. Common phrases that I've often heard include the following: "I'm not beautiful enough" "I don't have a big butt" "My teeth are crooked" "I'm too dark" "I've got a big tummy"   The list could go on. The truth however, is that- not all men are for big booties. Some prefer them small. Not all men love huge boobs. Some love them tiny and firm. Not all men want slim model types.... there are some who love them big and voluptuous. So what this means is that, THERE IS NO UNIVERSAL STANDARD FOR BEAUTY . It is al